Don’t Try and Buy Her Back With Gifts and Presents!
A big mistake that many guys make is trying to buy their girlfriend’s back by buying them lavish gifts in the hopes of convincing them to come running back. While saying sorry with a nice little gift is common place in most relationships the fact is that gifts and presents WILL NOT fix the problems that caused her to dump you.
As difficult as it is to hear that the fact is she has her reasons for leaving and these will not magically change no matter how much you spend or how big the gift is.
Many guys have tried this tactic and you know what, sometimes it works but it is only short lived. People can not continue in a relationship albeit it a happy one if the issues and problems are never explored, discussed and on the path of repair.
Look, I can’t tell you not to buy her something nice, I also can’t promise you that it will not infuriate her even more and make her livid. People can not be bought and unfortunately if you have that mindset right now it’s going to be difficult to let it go.
It is time to step back and thing about what she said and why she has left you. She might not have told you the complete truth in fear of hurting you even more so you need to really think about things carefully.
Second, do you want to be with someone who you think you can buy back? If she comes rushing back because you spent a tonne of money on her what does that say about her and your relationship? This can be a bitter pill to swallow and something you need to look at.
It might be easy to take out your wallet and think that it will be enough to at least get her to have second thoughts but think again. Be careful how you approach this stage, it can backfire so badly and blow up in your face.
If you are committed to buying her something then a small gift from the heart that has special meaning to her can mean a lot. Don’t put a price tag on a gift, something small and beautiful is worth more than a big ticket item, resist the urge of thinking, “this is how much I love you” with a dollar sign attached to it.
Whatever you decide, do not try and force her to allow you to come see her to give it to her. If she doesn’t want to speak to you then you need to respect that and find another way to get it to her.