What Can You Do If Your Ex Girlfriend Has Met Another Guy?
This is one of the most asked questions I receive so I thought I would address this question and offer an insight. What you can you really do when you see the love of your life in the arms of another guy?
Well many will feel as if their heart has been ripped out, anger, jealously and a whole range of emotions curse through their body. It can be a difficult pill to swallow but one that must be accepted if you want any chance to get her back in your arms.
I can’t tell you how many guys let their ego take over and their emotions spiral out of control. Now is not the time to act like a tough guy and intimidate her new guy or bag about him to her about what a punk and loser you think he is. This will do nothing but show her how bitter and desperate you are being and can make her run into his arms faster than you thought was possible.
Chances are she will not take what you are saying to heart, how can she, you are the one that was dumped right? If she is throwing it in your face that she is with another guy then that can make most men scream inside. If this is the case you need to keep your distance, avoid her calls, text messages and other channels of communication immediately.
You don’t want to come across as a jealous ex! You need to play it cool and pretend that you are unaffected about this “new arrangement”. This is not to say you need to ignore the pain but you need to avoid negativity towards your ex girlfriend and her new flame.
Rebound relationships and flings are very natural and normal. Everyone wants to feel wanted, everyone wants to feel something new and untainted and this includes your ex girlfriend. Chances are the first guy she meets after you will not be with her forever, rebound relationships rarely work.
This is why it is critical that you keep your cool and make her feel as if you are over the break up. Make her feel as if you no longer want her or need her, this can work like wonders. You see, women can have ego’s just as big as guys and they can feel it squashed when they see their ex no longer crying, begging or wanting to get them back. This is normal and this is where you can use it to your advantage.
Play it cool and be completely respectful and mature. Don’t push her away and into this other guys arms, let her see what you are still the awesome guy she once loved. Actions speak louder than words, stop with the talk and start believing you are “the man” and have the confidence and self esteem to get on with your life with a smile on your face.