How to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Miss You and Want You Back
If you are looking for effective ways to make your ex girlfriend miss you then you have come to the right place.
The fact is that making an ex miss you is one of the most effective techniques when it comes to making your ex feel as if she has made a huge mistake leaving you.
As the saying goes, the grass is not always greener on the other side, this rings so true when it comes to breaking up and seeing our former lover move on with her life.
The very last thing you want to do is make her feel as if you are waiting by the phone or computer for her to call you. You DON’T want to become that guy! You know the one, the dude that is sitting around like a little puppy dog, crying and wishing for their girl to change her mind and come running back!
Stop ALL Contact NOW
First things first, you need to stop all communication with your girlfriend. No text messages, emails, phone calls, Facebook contact, nada, zilch, put that phone DOWN.
Turning the tables on your girl can make her second guess her decision to leave and the first step is to make her miss you and making her feel as if you have moved on.
It can feel extremely difficult to pretend that you no longer want her, it may even scare you into thinking that this will completely destroy your chances to reunite, WRONG!
Everyone wants what they can’t have and this includes your ex girlfriend. If she feels if you are not letting go and are eagerly waiting for her to come back then she can use this to her advantage. What do I mean by this? Well, she knows that she can have you as a “reserve” should she start feeling lonely or if any future dating prospects do not go to plan.
Letting Her Go
It is time to summon up the strength and tell her you accept her decision to end the relationship and love her enough to let her go. Showing her that you respect her and her feelings is a great step.
The second step is to give her plenty of time and space, this means you have to TRY and forget about her. I’m not going to lie, it is going to be tough especially if you do not get out there and try and enjoy yourself.
You need to go against all those horrible feelings you have inside and try and put a smile on your face. Let your ex girlfriend hear stories about you getting on with your life through mutual friends or family. Let her think you no longer want her or need her in your life to be happy, this is a great way to make her miss you and remember all the good times you too once shared together.
Get a Hold of Your Emotions
Relationships can make us do and say things that in time we can regret. With emotions running high, issues plaguing happiness and other factors that we don’t clearly understand at the time, we quickly forget about the person we fell in love with.
It is important to rekindle that spark and that image of yourself. Making her see that you are still that great guy she fell for is an amazing way to make her second guess her decision to leave you.
So what should you do right now? Well, I don’t know what happened in your relationship or the reasons your girl had for leaving but what I do know is that absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Don’t become a jealous and bitter ex boyfriend who can’t let go, this will make her keep her distance and greatly reduce the chances to reunite in the future, good luck!