Why Is My Ex Girlfriend Ignoring Me?

If you find that your ex girlfriend is doing everything in her power to avoid you then chances are you have stepped on her toes and she is pissed!

Regardless of the reason for your break up or who ended it, the fact is that most ex’s will struggle to remain friends after a break up no matter how good their intentions are.

The last thing you want to do right now is to cut her out of your life for good right?  Well I don’t want to be the one to tell you that you may have already crossed the line.  If you have been harassing your ex girlfriend and leaving dozens of voice mails, text messages and emails then you need to stop immediately.

I don’t know your reasons for wanting to speak to your ex.  Maybe you want to have her as a friend in your life or maybe you are trying to talk her into giving you another chance?  Whatever your reasons you need to accept the fact that your relationship is over and your ex girlfriend does not owe you anything.  As horrible as it may sound the fact is that your relationship is over and if you are lucky enough to remain friends it will be a decision you both need to make together.

One of the most common reasons an ex girlfriend will ignore their former lover is that the guy is not getting the message and refusing to accept the fact their their relationship has ended.  She has her reasons for ignoring you and while it might come as a shock you need to take a few steps back and take a look at your actions.  Look their your ex’s eyes and see if you would do exactly what she is doing to you if the shoe was on the foot.

A great way to turn things around is to stop all contact and chill!  Whether your break up was last week or last month, you can’t harass your ex girlfriend and expect her to want to talk to you.  There is nothing you can do to FORCE her to pick up the phone but you can most definitely improve your odds.

There are some great techniques out there online these days that will make her feel compelled to call you back and speak to you.  You need to be very careful when you use these techniques as they are extremely effective and you must approach with caution.

No matter the reason you have for wanting to talk to her you need to remember be completely honest with yourself and take a look at your behaviour.  Chances are you are not doing yourself any favours if you have become a possessive ex boyfriend who does not want to let go and give her the space she is looking for.